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I wanted to pass along 3 articles that I read recently – great stuff!

  1. Click here for a good view on when the church disappoints.
  2. Click here for how to speak up when you need to.
  3. Click here to read about effective leaders.

Which article was your favorite and why?

What is your pulse?

This past weekend I stated that while everyone has a physical pulse, not everyone has a relational pulse. I thought I would share some common characteristics of those who have relational pulses:

  • there are at least a couple relationships that have lasted many years
  • when a friend seems to have made a mistake they still assume positive intent
  • forgiveness is the first attitude not the last option
  • they don’t hold grudges
  • they use the hammer of their tongue to build others up not tear them down
  • they actually say “I was wrong, will you forgive me?”
  • they are not the center of every conversation
  • they listen more than they talk
  • when uncertain about a matter they ask for clarity

What would you add to the list?

 

Don’t let it bury you!

A parable is told of a farmer who owned an old mule. The mule fell into the farmer’s well. The farmer heard the mule ‘braying’, or whatever mules do when they fall into wells. After carefully assessing the situation, the farmer sympathized with the mule, but decided that neither the mule nor the well was worth the trouble of saving. Instead, he called his neighbors together and told them what had happened and enlisted them to help haul dirt to bury the old mule in the well and put him out of his misery. Initially, the old mule was hysterical! But as the farmer and his neighbors continued shoveling and the dirt hit his back, a thought struck him. It suddenly dawned on him that every time a shovel load of dirt landed on his back — he should shake it off and step up! This he did, shovelful after shovelful.  ”Shake it off and step up . . . shake it off and step up . . . shake it off and step up!” he repeated to encourage himself. No matter how painful the blows, or distressing the situation seemed the old mule fought “panic” and just kept right on shaking it off and stepping up! It wasn’t long before the old mule, battered and exhausted, stepped triumphantly over the wall of that well! What seemed like it would bury him, had actually blessed him — all because of the manner in which he handled his adversity.

Awesome Stuff

I had the privilege of talking with Adam Whitley today and letting him know how once again the people of Parkview have been incredibly generous. Your offering for the Whitley family this past weekend was just over $2,700! Phenomenal! Praise God for your generosity to people in their time of need. If you missed the video about their little miracle son Sevrin, I will try to get it posted on my blog this week. The Whitley’s are so thankful for your generosity! If you have not been able to give but would like to do so, we will continue collecting money for them through the month of May – who knows what God would have us do!!!

In Your Presence

Psalm 16:2 says, “…in Your presence is fullness of joy…”

The question I had after reading that verse was not, “How do I have joy?”. The reason that was not my question is because the verse tells me how to have joy. The question I had was, “How do experience God’s presence?”. So after thinking about it here are a few ways I can experience His presence:

  • Read all of Psalm 16
  • Re-read all of Psalm 16
  • Pray while I run
  • Thank God for my health
  • Have an attitude of praise
  • Enjoy the music in the car that is on the christian radio station
  • Love those that he has put in my life and love them like he does
  • Admire his handiwork
  • Push pause and think on him

How can you or how are you experiencing God’s presence today?

Happiness is based on what happens – joy is experienced in God’s presence. EnJOY your day!

How Can I Say Thanks

Just recently our church had the opportunity to serve a lady in our congregation. In my mind, the way we reached out to her was not very big but to her it was huge. She is 81 years old and has been attending our church for a few years. It was very important to her that she express appreciation for the way that Parkview reached out to her in a time of need. So, in order to say thanks, she brought a home cooked meal and fed our whole staff today. In doing so she taught or reminded me of a few good lessons:

  • Saying thanks is good for others to hear
  • Saying thanks is good for me to hear
  • A grateful heart blesses all
  • Gratitude expresses love
  • Everyone can say thanks
  • I may have a unique way to really express appreciation
  • You never get to old to say thanks:)

I was simply reminded today of the importance of gratitude!

Japan Connections

I don’t watch much TV and therefore haven’t had much exposure to all the happenings in Japan. What  I have seen has primarily been by way of the internet. It has all taken my breathe away – devastation is an understatement!!!

Todd and Annie Lee are facebook friends of ours and fellow alumnus. They are ministering in Japan and this is what Annie posted on her status update yesterday:  i am overwhelmed by the love and support shown by so many of you to our family. thank you for your concern and prayers! there are 3,221 churches in eastern japan and in them are 241,498 Christians. please pray we can be a light to the world during this time.

David Harris is a missionary in Japan. His mother was actually my secretary when I was employed at Trinity Baptist College. David posted this on his blog: We have been receiving calls about churches and individuals who want to donate for quake relief.  BIMI has authorized us to oversee this fund.  If you are interested, please see the link at bimi.org.

We were in Misawa which is 200 miles north of the main quake area for a missions conference at Faith Baptist Church when the quake hit. Thankfully, we were only inconvenienced with 2 days without electricity, heat, or hot water. The church made sure we had food and water. There is little damage here, but we felt the dozens of earthquakes that followed.

Power was restored to almost the whole area on Sunday except for the military base inn in which we are staying!  We had power for church on Sunday.  We had a great conclusion to our mission’s conference at Faith BC in Misawa with Pastor Sammy Popwell.

We were to head back to Kobe this morning by bullet train, but found out that they are not running.  We are trying to get back down via the west coast of Japan, but learned that trains heading in that area are also out today.  We’ll try again tomorrow.  The only other option is for us to head to Aomori and then try to fly back home which will cost us over $1000 one way for the three of us.  We are praying the trains start back.  If so, we can get a night train that goes down the Japan Sea side for about $500 for all of us.  Roads are closed and buses are not running.

I am praying for some way to head toward the quake area to see if I might be able to help with relief.  If I can get Jenny and Josiah home, that might be an option.  Please pray for thousands Thank you for praying for Japan.

Click here to view a video and helpful prayer to help us know how to pray.

Words Included

Jay Caruso is a great friend and an amazing photographer. A couple months ago he asked if he could “shadow” me for a weekend and shoot some photos of what a pastor’s weekend looks like. A couple weeks ago we connected and Jay worked his magic with the camera (I could use a little “photoshopping”:-)) Click here to check out the result of our time together.

Jay is also leading an incredible service project. Please consider participating!! Click here to get more info.

New Coaches

Everybody has their critics – that is true of you and that is true of me. I read something recently that has caused me a good bit of thinking, I don’t remember where I read it but here is the quote, “Wise people let their critics become their coaches”. Now if you are like me, my first thoughts were about picking apart that quote and disproving it at several levels. After all who wants to think of their critics in a positive light. But the more I have thought about it the more the quote makes sense, at least at the big picture level. Why would you agree or disagree with the quote?

Just Thankful

Just a few random things I am thankful for – no particular order

  1. God’s grace and truth in my life
  2. Eternity
  3. My family. Denise and Seth’s love is so life giving.
  4. The homemade pie a friend gave us for our 19th anniversary the other day.
  5. Some real good friends!
  6. A hard working, sweet spirited staff.
  7. Tremendous leaders who have embraced our mission
  8. Cold a/c in summer florida heat.
  9. The opportunity to expand our building and reach more people.
  10. Summer vacation
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